Is you concern rubbing it in for someone!

You might be genuinely concerned about someone and so time and again you must be asking some questions to persuade the person or to check if anything is wrong with him or her. But do you realize that your concern might be getting on someone’s nerves! And instead of confiding into you to seek support, he or she may choose to avoid you.

Your constant questions or advice with comparisons, glorifying role-models or exemplifying repercussions may do nothing but build around tremendous negativity. The best is not to give unsolicited advice. And if you really can’t see things going other than your desired way, try to share your thought with some indirect approach. But in your subsequent meetings avoid the touchy subject. This way you might be comforting the person giving him or her much required “SPACE” for self-realization.

The fact of the matter remains that even if you try to analyze someone’s situation and advice to your best, you can't regulate his or her life. You would know whether the poor fellow might also be trying to correct everything, but may have no control. Who doesn’t want to be happy after all! When it is all adults, there should not be any preaching but learning together or sharing.

Sometimes all you need is to just rise above being too much into the world and worldly ways...you may help so many people around you...